Too nice? is there such a thing for you ladies?

ok so im a handsome 28 year old man who is caring,goes to church,is goin to school to be a massage therapist..and i enjoy just hanging out with people and gettin to know people..im not shy. and yet for some reason..im finding lately that i can easily be friends with beautiful young women..and thats it! nothing else, like my being super nice to them is the 'deal killer'..im not saying im becoming a jerk to attract the opposite sex..just want to see what you ladies think about a guy who goes out of his way to be a friend to you,and cares deeply for you. like for my friend the other day,i got her flowers,she reaches out to me,asks for prayer,hangs w me stuff like that.but i feel that we are 'just friends' in her eyes..yeah, is there such a thing as too nice? where is the line drawn?

Too nice? is there such a thing for you ladies?
umm there is such a thing as to nice when you say are you ok do you need some thing are you ok like over and over and over again thats too nice but a nice guy is hard to find these days so any woman that gets you is a lucky lil sunshine lol
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Reply:OK raul,

What is up with that prayer thing?......Why in the heck did she do that when you gave her flowers????...I would have said thanx, And maybe a hug. But not prayer. Sorry.

Hey I like nice guys. But there is something about too nice.

if you're tooooo nice. There just might be something wrong with ya. Or so we might think. Maybe you're hiding something. Don't know. So you could be nice. But try not to overly act toooo nice. I hope you understand.......Good Luck.
Reply:That church going thing would be a turn off to me.
Reply:maybe you are trying TOO hard to be friends. that can scare girls off, because you sound desperate. Back off, show you have confidence in yourself, flash your winning smile and see what happens.
Reply:Yes you can be too nice. This was me. Be yourself but do not be a doormat .Stop sending them flowers and just be there for them. Let them know your intentions give then that look. I think you are giving off a vibe you are their brother or just a good friend. Say no when you do not agree with something. There is a balance. Be nice but not overly nice be a little bit of a jerk sometimes.
Reply:Yes dear there is something called too nice. Women tend to take men who are extremely kind for granted. Just the notion of a guy being too nice makes them feel like he has some kinda inferiority complex. This I am sure, is not your problem but they are just wired to think like that. Being genuine is no longer what women want. They say they do but when guys are sincere they get shoved in a corner and stereotyped as freaks. Women like guys who are hard to get. Try to appear unavailable. When she calls tell her you'd call her back and don't. Sorry to say but you'll find what you're looking for.
Reply:It's been my experience that guys who are told they are "too nice" usually are going out of there way constantly to please everyone. They don't express their true emotions (negative %26amp; positive) because they don't want to offend anyone so they are not taken seriously.
Reply:just friends is the kiss of death. keep looking....wow a massage therapist....thats great...if i could afford one i would have one...
Reply:Yes there is a thing, one time i had a bf who typed me notes everyday, carried my books 4 me, and put my coat on 4 me everyday- he definently crossed the line %26amp; i had to let him go =(
Reply:Sometimes we get to think someone is pretending to be too nice, Nobody is perfect. That's the thing.
Reply:You are attracting the wrong kind of women. Do you only go after women that only offer good looks?
Reply:A lot of my close friends have that problem. The conclusion I came to with them may be the same for you. They will meet a girl, be her friend, get to know her and then when they are finally brave enough to say something, they get the friend speech. I when first meeting a girl, there is a point where you can take the road toward dating, but once that turn has passed, you are on the friend road. I think the trick may be knowing when to try to date her before it is too late. And yes, a guy that is too nice can be a bad thing.
Reply:no, there is no such thing as being too nice, you sound like a really great guy. just wait for the right girl to come along. :)
Reply:Yes.



If i made you a coffee with to much sugar, you`d probly pull a face, say here, thats to much.



Same with males/females, they dont like to much sweetness, just enough and thats alls required.



Females %26amp; males like a challenge with someone , its like a race, like a hunt, in for the kill.



Yaaaaa lol.



But if your to sweet...forget it