ok my friend david is absest with this girl katie and has been for a long time. he asked her out and she turned him down cause she had a boyfriend, then he gave her flowers. that runed their friendship. now everytime i talk to him on line all he talkes about is her and how miserable he is. i try to help and now he is ignoring me. what should i do??? pleace, i need help.
Friend who is a little annying.....?
first hats off to u as u still want to help yr friend.
look what yr friend has done is go ask a girl out who already had a boyfriend . don't u think its quiet ___________.
and when she had turned him down with this genuine reason he once again he'd given her flowers. (what did he think? that she'll drop her guy like hot coal n go after him???)
now tell me. if u had a boyfriend, who u really loved n one of yr friends or some guy asked u out how Wu u react?
there is no mistake on the girl's side.
its yr friend, he should have know if she had a guy b4 asking her out, n when he did come 2 now it, he should have backed off. not sent her flowers.
how wud he react if his girl had gone of with another guy ??
tell this to yr friend n tell him how wrong he is . tell him to put himself in others perspectives n do some thinking n not just think selfishly about himself.
he has no right to mourn, coz he has done a stupid blunder n no one is gonna sympathize with he if he continues whining,
tell him n drill the concept into his brain. give him some time.... hang out with a bunch of friends n do some fun activities together, mostly to distract him.if he brings up the subject again n again, firmly but kindly tell him to avoid it.
if nothing happens even after this..
wash yr hands... coz u'd tried helping him.. good luck...
Reply:This poor guy had his heart broken...just be sympathetic and don't judge him. Everyone has their heart broken at some point. If it happens to you someday, you know that David will be there to support you.
Reply:well i would just tell him you dont go after a girl that has a boyfriend you are asking for a heart ache and he needs to go on with his life and find a single girl to like just be their for him as a friend where he can talk a little bit about it and when you think you have heard enough then tell him lets change the subject and yall go meet some girls that are single and have fun
Reply:Dear Heart,
Let him deal with the situation. I would suggest that you mention to him that you do not want to interfere in his relationships and to please avoid mentions of his personnal business on line with you. Be honest and explain the reasons you do not wish to do that anymore. If he is intelligent and smart, he will understand your point and he will not annoy you anymore with this.
Have a good week-end.
Good luck.
Reply:First off, Pink Wing you need to learn how to spell - your keyboard isn't a cell phone.
Anyways, what are you trying to do? Are you trying to get David to stop ignoring you? or are you trying to just be friends with him? Ask yourself this, "What do you want?" And then go from there.
Saturday, February 11, 2012
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