Is this normal?

ok, 3 dates and a couple phone calls ( although we do know each other from work)

and i get flowers saying he cant wait to see me again and it needs to be now? what is the now for? is he wanting something else?

is this border line stalker behavior?

or is just a nice gesture?

Is this normal?
Belle youre overanalyzing again its just a nice gesture
Reply:it is a crush. if he was "stalking" he would be outside or near you watching your every move. I think it is a figure of speech. Can he come over to you or can you go to him? He has a crush on you.
Reply:nice gesture. and i think he wants more. you just never know. what he is thinking or going to do or when. watch you self be cool
Reply:I suspect it is a nice gesture. However, stalking behavior is obsessive/compulsive behavior and surfaces early. Although nothing is one size fits all, this behavior will show itself early in a relationship. Ones instinct in these things should always be trusted. We tend to want to be “fair” based on culture, logic, our rational thought, but this kind of behavior is not rational. My advice is trust your instincts more than your sense of fair play. If something seems weird, it usually is. If a relationship feels wrong it usually is and is better severed early before it is established.
Reply:He is probably trying to be romantic. Normal? Probably not, but give him a chance. It is only stalking if you tell him no and he keeps bugging you after that. That you would even think this, however, suggests you probably are not really into the guy. Trust your feelings in this case.
Reply:Call the cops.
Reply:maybe
Reply:well most men think u will drop what ever it is u are doing for them sending u flowers doesn't sound like a stalker but if he startes showing up at your job run or give him what most are just looking for ****** leave him
Reply:Simple infatuation. Have to look at his past relationships, does he fall fast? Has he had one in a while or at all? Be Careful, end it before he says I love you tomorrow!
Reply:Is he married? It sounds normal for a married man to do.
Reply:By overanalyzine the situation you take all the fun out of romance. No wonder men don't know what in hell to do as everything or anything they do is seen to be wrong. Beer and a TV remote don't give you a headache.
Reply:Ummm, yeah, he wants something else. :) I don't know about stalker, but the guy evidentally has developed feelings for you from before you ever went out. You said you work together; maybe he has a serious crush or something. If the NOW bothered you, tell him not to be so pushy. It definitely doesn't sound like a nice gesture; but his intentions may be different than your interpretation.
Reply:It sounds like a nice gesture. Let him know that you don't want things to move too fast, that it makes you uncomfortable. He should respect your feelings, if he pressures you, you will know that you need to re-think your situation with him, otherwise, sounds like he is just trying to be nice.
Reply:yes hes wanting someting alright..tighten your belt
Reply:i would say a nice gesture, give him the benfit of a doubt
Reply:I think its just a nice gesture gone a little wrong.
Reply:It is nice to get flowers but just keep you eyes open and watch out.
Reply:My be the choice of the word "now" was not the best word he could have chosen and it really could mean that he misses you and would like to be with you now! In my opinion i would ask him exactly what he was meaning on the message he sent with the beautifully flowers.No not stalker, but "besotted" "In love"more like it!!
Reply:well do you like him? if you do go see him. he must like you a lot!!
Reply:He was prob just kidding around with the "now" comment
Reply:I wouldnt take it badly. Sounds like he is just into you. Give it a little more time and see what it actually is.

He was probably just trying to let u know how much he misses you, just used a bad choice of words.

Dont back off just yet. See how the next couple dates go andthen determine what the deal is.

Good luck hun.
Reply:It's a nice gesture that can lead to stalker behavior if not reciprocated...lol
Reply:He's sounds like he's really into you. But don't let him move you along too fast. And yes, it is STALKER-----ISH.
Reply:U ASK HIM STRAIGHT AWAY
Reply:maybe he needs to talk to you in person such as.........asking you out?
Reply:I dont think its stalker behavior. Maybe a nice gesture. He wants to make you feel good, let you know that you are wanted and to make you feel important. Its normal!
Reply:aww he sounds lovely lol defo nice gesture!!

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