I guess you got to really get hurt to learn your lesson?

dated this woman, whom I thought I hurt badm but not as bad as she did to me. I was talking to women on line, but never dated. she went out and even screwed on the 2nd date. I really cared for her and told her I was sorry, and would do whatever she wanted. She meet another guy, and want to see where it goes, but yet she still calls me and says why do you love me, and everytime I answer, she brings up why did talk to woman on line. She want to go out with me as a friend. I never call her, but I sent her flowers to show our friendship. I even asked her the day befor if she would like to go for coffee, she said yes, but its going to snow. I called her today on her cell, and the ahole answered. He was calling me out. She could of told me she was spending time with this jerk. She really played me for a fool. She is a sick woman, A normal woman would not do what she did

I guess you got to really get hurt to learn your lesson?
a woman you dated who you hurt... your missing the point here... It doesn't matter what she did after wards, you hurt her first... stop putting focus on what shes done and put it on yourself for what you did to begin with to get it now this way...
Reply:unfortunately, yessss it sucks to get hurt badly but the lessons that we learn from it are very important. so hey, forget her and go out and find some other women of your own! and if she happens to call you, let your new woman answer ;)
Reply:Well ain't this the pot calling the kettle black. Why were you talking to other women online??? I don't get it. People are so confusing. You say you care about her, but why would you hurt someone you care about? She wasn't enough for you? I've been there before....in her shoes. And it really sucked big time. You have no right to be upset with her. You started this whole mess!
Reply:I have to agree with your opening title. Because I, too have suffered from something like this, although it was worse. Much worse. But I find that whenever you get into a hardship like this, get in fight downtown and pull the buddy's ear off. That's what I did--mind you, this was the guy that had sex with my girlfriend while I was dating her, and I'm only kidding. You shouldn't do that. I did it out of rage and I almost killed myself. So, just... pray i guess.
Reply:hi,



love dont just work 1 way .......it need both ppl to fall.



why dont you just go on with your life..and let her live wt the man she choose for now....



the asshole may break her up and then she may appreacite u much more better in future.......



u deserve someone better :D