Monday, January 9, 2012

Note with flowers??

I reposted this question for more responses.



I've decided to send this girl I've liked since school started some flowers with a note. I really like her a lot, and I'm not sure how she feels. I was wondering if anyone had some tips on making these ideas into a note that sounds... better?



"I can't keep it to myself anymore, so I'll just tell you. I think that you're the coolest, most beautiful girl that I've ever met. When you smile at me, it makes the entire world seem like a better place. I just wanted to let you know how I feel and that I think about you all the time. I would love more than anything to take you out to dinner, if you would let me."



I don't know whether to ask if she feels the same way in the note, I feel like I'm putting it all on the line doing this. Any help would be awesome. I'm new at this, because shes the first girl I really feel this way about.

Note with flowers??
The note is really good. In fact, that is the sweetest thing to do (in my opinion). The note is fine. All you have to do is personally see her. That's the only thing to do when you send a love note.



I really hope she will say yes to your invitation .
Reply:Ok you might wanna just go ahead and put that in a card not a note, all a girl need sto know is that you like her, I mean lets just thnk here, you digging her but in the future will you feel the same way, those very words will be used againts you when you two get into arguments and she throws it all back in your face, thats what us women do, its natural, save yourself, make it short and sweet, and get card, that away when that arguing time does come you can blame it on somebodies else words;)
Reply:Make your note brief. Don't put all that - you might frighten her off. Something like 'For a really lovely girl. Please ring me - then your phone number' would be plenty for a first move. Rephrase this of course, but keep it brief and cool
Reply:Ehh, I would hesitate putting that much into it. Reasons being:



- If you don't know her that well, she might think, 'He doesn't know me at all, what a line.'

- If you actually don't know her that well, you're making a pretty heavy decision about what she's like; what if you take her out and discover she's flightly, obnoxious, or mean?

- That's a pretty heavy thing to say right off the bat. While it's incredibly sweet, it seems best reserved for a serious relationship, not one that hasn't even started yet.

- Some girls just aren't into romance like that.



I work in the legal field, and a friend/client of ours had a strong attraction toward another attorney who worked at a different firm. He asked his friend (one of the attorneys in our firm) to write a phony court document requesting a lunch date on Valentine's Day, which was "served" upon her with flowers. Sweet idea (my boyfriend, who is a lawyer, would definitely succeed if he did something like that to me), but the woman was not amused, impressed, or interested. Poor guy put everything out there and lost.



Take it easy in the beginning. If you've liked her since school started this year, that's not much time to get to know her. I fully appreciate your efforts here, but I'm afraid it's too much too soon. Send her the flowers, ask to take her to dinner - but don't go overboard with your presentation.
Reply:does this girl respond to your notes...if not i think she is not interested...


No comments:

Post a Comment