Disappearing fiancé-- what to do?

I am 26 and was involved with a 34 year old man from Italy in a long-distance relationship. We met about two years ago and last summer began our relationship. We had been good friends up to that point and his mother and I have always been close (she introduced us).

I went to see him for New Year's and he proposed marriage. I was thrilled, believe me. Well, he gave me a ring and when I got back to the US, the stone fell out twice. He told me he spent 300 Euros on it; naturally, I was hysterical.

When I got to the jeweler, they refused to repair it. Why? Because it was only worth $20. I called him to tell him I knew the truth but the phone line cut. This was Feb. 8 and we have not spoken since-- he won't answer the phone.

I have spoken to his mom several times, even today. She said he said he thought I thought all he wanted me for was US citizenship-- NOT true. He also thought I got it appraised on purpose-- NOT true. She says "if they are flowers, they'll bloom." What do you think?

Disappearing fiancé-- what to do?
sounds like a fake relationship for sure.
Reply:he lied to you about the ring. you got it apraised and tried to get it fixed because the stone fell out. i think you could do better than a guy who will give you a $20 ring for an engagement ring, then lie to you about how much its worth. if you havn't talked to him since febuary, then id say its probably safe to assume the relationship is over. he sounds like he is delibritly avoiding you. move on. find a better guy who will treat you right.
Reply:uh, yeah....he gave you a FAKE ring



i think that shows how much he cares about you. :(



I'd move on. I'd completely forget about him. Don't call, don't email, nothing. He'll get the hint. If he's interested, he can make it up to you.
Reply:How can you possibly even know him if he lives in another continent. I think if he doesn't want to talk to you , you should forget him.
Reply:I think he's a cheap bastard who got caught being cheap...did he honestly think you wouldn't get your engagement ring appraised. Every woman wants to know what her ring is worth that's half the fun. He won't answer the phone because he's embarassed that he didn't care enough to get you a good ring and he got caught skimping out. LOL
Reply:Honestly this guy sounds really weird and I think you should move on.
Reply:sounds like you found out he is a lier just in time! be thankful it was before u got married! any man at his age that spits off rediculas lies like that isnt worth your time!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOld your head up high, and know theres someone better out ther for you!( one whos grown enough to know better than to make rediculious lies like that!) stay beautiful
Reply:Id move on. What a complete jerk you have encountered. That sucks. Definitely move on to someone better. Dont stick around bothering with this guy. Obviously hes not truthful nor is he marriage material.
Reply:get out now while you can. A man who really loves you wont do what hes done. Don't ever settle for less than you deserve. I did, and I have paid a dear price. RUN FOREST RUN%26gt;

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