How to find a job and why loved ones seem or don't understand please help?

do you ever feel like you stressed and get blamed for stuff you don't do and somehow just give in to it and just say you did to let everything die down then feel so bad you end up aching like nausea i have nothing to really stress other i have a wedding in 5 months all i have left to do for it is get my bridesmaids measured. hire security and do flowers every thing is is done. i also may be my job every time i ask i get the same answer from two different manager and director of the place they blame each other when i ask why cant i get more then 10 hours a week then yesterday my fiance starts at me by what are you planning on doing once we are married i work 45 to 70 hours a week is what he says i think he is just frustrated about the wedding since my mom and i keep telling him to get his address t i am looking for a job which they both think all i do is play computer games which is BS i spend 80 percent of my day looking for jobs on line everything is on line and phone for jobs help?

How to find a job and why loved ones seem or don't understand please help?
Agree with 'blackflame003' re resume.

You also need to relax with regards to your wedding as it appears to me you are experiencing stress and this is quite normal since we want our wedding day to be perfect. Relax, it is the getting married that is important everything else is pictures for the future.

If people do not understand your work then that is it, their problem not yours. And how many hours do you want to work a week? You have to talk with your fiance now how you are both going to 'see' each other as absence of one can bring resentment out in the other. Make sure you have a 'date' at least once a month to keep the romance and excitement alive. Relax and enjoy, others can not understand because it is not their experience it is yours. Don't sweat what you cannot change.

Hope your Wedding Day is as wonderfull as you want it to be.
Reply:Well, I would be upset with you as well if you were only working 10 hours a week, and spending all your time online. If you need another part time job to cover you in the meantime, go to your local shopping mall and talk with store managers there, most places I've seen are ALWAYS hiring. Restaurants are usually hiring as well. It would also help if you would say what you're looking to get a job doing as well for someone to advise you. But I do know that most part time jobs (and you can work more than one of them at a time) do not advertise on the online sites--you have to physically walk in and apply. So, get some nice clothes on, and go out there first thing tomorrow and start applying. Just a hint--you might want to be aware that when filling out applications, even online, that punctuation and capitalization really help in getting hired. If I were an employer (and I am), and I got an application filled out like you've done this question--I wouldn't hire you. I wouldn't even call you in for an interview.



On your wedding--I don't know what you need security for a wedding for? That's a new one for me.
Reply:Bring your resume to a temporary employment agency. You'll be hired based on your skills and qualifications.