Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Is it normal to think about weddings and getting married all the time???

So, I think about wedding, and getting married all the time. When I see a bridal magazine, I tear through it. I'm not engaged, nor do I have a boyfriend. When I hear a love song, the first thing I think of is if it would be a good "first dance" song. I already know what my colors will be, what flowers I will use, who will be my bridesmaids, and how I'll do my hair. I've also been thinking of where to have the reception. Am I just being a typical girl, I mean, do other girls do this too, or am I being way outta line?

Is it normal to think about weddings and getting married all the time???
yes that is normal because that is what girls and women do. they dream of their BIG DAY!!
Reply:Its not abnormal to think about your wedding day before it happens. For women their wedding is a big deal and one of the most special moments. I think that it would become a problem if your love with the idea of getting married and having a wedding becomes an obsession. If you are taking the day to try on wedding dresses instead of going to work…if its interfering with you life and daily activities then yes it has become a problem. If not then there is no harm in dreaming about your special day and thinking about it ahead of time.



Good Luck
Reply:I've been doing this for years. I just love weddings (I love party planning, in general).



I think it's OK as long as it remains a hobby/guilty pleasure. As long as you aren't looking to get married, just for the sake of the party or pressuring boyfriends (when you have them) to propose. It's OK.



We all need a guilty pleasure. If looking at wedding related stuff is yours, OK than. Just make sure it's doesn't become something that alienates you from friends, loved ones or potential boyfriends.



If this is the worst thing you do, I wouldn't be worried. There are worse hobbies you could have, like drinking, drugs, gambling, sex addictions.....you get the idea!



Have fun browsing!
Reply:Girls do dream about it, but be realistic enough to realize that when you do meet that special guy, he's going to want to have input too. I always dreamed of a beach wedding, and we had a church wedding instead because my fiance was not into destination weddings.



My dress, engagement ring, and cake did not look like what I had envisioned while in my teens and early 20s (I married at 25), but I loved them more than the dreams that I used to have. In addition, my bridal party changed significantly as most of my bridesmaids were my friends from grad school (not high school or bachelors' degree of college).



Dream all you want, get subscriptions to bridal magazines (I did, it saves money from buying them every month)! Just keep in mind that your future guy may not dream everything exactly the way you do... although mine was totally cool with wearing the purple roses that I always wanted in his boutonniere. *SMILE*



I think all girls dream about their wedding day and about getting married... it's the little princess inside of us all. Out of line? Nah -- that would be if you'd bought stuff for your wedding already. Then I'd say you were going overboard! :)
Reply:I think its wonderfull for you to think about this. A wedding is a beautiful experience but I advise you not to sell yourself short by settling for just shacking up with someone, that can really dull the experience. Wait for the right person who will wait for you. I would also advise you to think about what kind of marriage you will have, how will you work out problems (all marriages have them), how to handle money, how many children etc. Many people plan for the wedding but not for the marriage. God created you to be joined to another, in fact He performed the first wedding in the Garden of Eden when He gave Eve to Adam. Ths Bible also talks about a marriage to come when the followers of Jesus (the bride of Christ) will be joined together with the Bridegroom (Jesus). There will be feasts and celebrations such as we have never seen. To take part in this you must put your trust in Jesus today and become His follower, you will become His bride and He is the greatest lover of all. You will not be disappointed.
Reply:I'm guessing you're in your early 20s? It's very typical but don't jump the gun and marry the first guy that comes along to experience that or parenthood. I know there are girls who have done that and staying w/ someone you don't truly love sucks (as well as divorce).
Reply:Haha, I did this my whole life, every girl dreams about her big day!
Reply:I think you are fine! Some people always dream about getting married, so it is no big deal. Just remember, you have to find the guy first and you don't want to settle for some guy just because you want to get married!

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